Archive | July, 2012

It Is Never The Obvious!

31 Jul

Dear Readers, Or I should say…

        

Dear Steven Cooper,

 

A friend or mine posted on Facebook a statement you made and I quote: 

 

“I’m not eating Chick-Fil-A because I support some anti-gay agenda. I’m eating it because I believe in our freedom of speech, expression, and opinion for BOTH sides of the argument. Boycotting Chick-Fil-A because they voiced their moral opinion is counter productive to the idea of equal rights. You can’t fight to gain one right while throwing away another. BOTH the Christian and LGBT communities should be allowed to share their beliefs publicly without being punished for it. That’s the benefit of living in this great country. And besides, this chicken is freakin’ delicious!” — with Steven Cooper.

 

Mr. Cooper I would really enjoy for you to engage your brain before the next time you speak. I’m just saying you could give it a try! You see Mr. Cooper the statement from Dan Cathy is not a freedom of speech issue just like yelling “fire” in a crowded movie theater or telling the person next to you on a plane “I have a bomb.” When your speech interferes with other people’s civil liberties, you have NO right to say it. To quote my very brilliant Mother…”Just because it’s on your brain, doesn’t mean it has to be on your tongue.”

 

In my opinion you stupidly joined the ranks of people who react to words and to situations without the intelligences’ of thinking of future harmful and negative consequences.  You stood litigiously on your equal rights podium only reacting in the moment (very ADD of you.)  It is far easier these days to jump on board to an already existing controversy then to stop, engage one’s mind, allowing time for a complete (not just of the obvious) understanding enabling a thoughtful compassionate response.

 

Lets face it Mr. Cooper, marriage is larger then God and two people in-love. It involves our government at every level - city, state and federal. A married couple can file a joint tax return with financial benefits. When one spouse dies net worth can be passed on to the surviving spouse without costly tax penalties, if any. Medical insurance for a married couple is less costly then two separate policies with the same benefits and deductibles. Marriage can make a spouse a legal American citizen and DO NOT get me started on Children & Divorce; I think you know where I am going with this.

 

To prove my point:

Deborah L. Jacobs from Forbes.com  

 

“The sweeping tax overhaul that President Obama signed Dec. 17, raising the exemption from federal estate tax to $5 million a person, includes a wonderful new break for widows and widowers. Starting in 2011, they can add the unused estate tax exemption of the spouse who died most recently to their own. This dramatic change enables spouses together to transfer up to $10 million tax-free. It also eliminates the need in many cases for the tax-planning gyrations that lawyers routinely recommended to preserve each spouse’s estate tax exemption amounts….” “The law doesn’t change the fact that you can give an unlimited amount to your spouse, during life or through your estate plan (provided she or he is a U.S. citizen) with no tax applied…”

  

So Mr. Cooper can we agree to honestly recognize when someone like the likes of Mr. Cathy, President of a four billion dollar American business, who has financially benefited from American Marital laws (not God laws) and has benefited from corporate America (not just heterosexual Christians) and then publicly vocalizes that it goes against God for gays to marry, it is NOT just Freedom of Speech, it is NOT just a religious belief and it is most certainly NOT just “freaken’ delicious!” chicken!

 

Maybe Dan Cathy, the President of Chick-Fil-A is ready and able to put his mouth where his wallet is. Maybe he knows enough hungry God fearing Christians to solely support Chick-Fil-A’s four billion dollar a year profit margin all by themselves!    

 

In this moment in time I will share another one of my Mother’s quotes ”You should never bite the hand that feeds you.” Hmmm Mr. Cooper, think about it!

 

Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS with an open mind, a pause, and enough love in my heart to respect all marriages. And for what its worth, it doesn’t look like the heterosexuals will be bringing home the gold in the marriage event by any stretch of the imagination! Amen!

 

Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!

 

Kindest regards,

 

Asklotta

 

President and CEO

 

CBCorp 

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Men and Women Friends?

30 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
Last week I walked through an exercise room filled with machines, weights and mirrors I looked up and bolted to the ceiling were three T.V. screens all on different channels and all on mute. The center T.V. caught my attentions, the caption underneath the two talking heads said, “can men and women be friends?” I kept walking since I was on my way to an event so I never did find out what was their final conclusion.
 
Just the mere mention of men and women being friends conjures up visions of Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan in that fabulous movie “When Harry met Sally?” One of the best movies of all times!
 
“Harry Burns: You were going to be a gymnast.
Sally Albright: A journalist.
Harry Burns: Right, that’s what I said.”
-imdb.com
 
But the question still remains and now before us, is it possible for Men and Women to be just friends? 
 
I say YES if neither one is married, I say NO if at least one of them is married. 
 
Last Saturday night my silent investor and I were out for dinner with some friends and having the most wonderful time talking, laughing and eating! Then I did it, I had to asked the question… Can Men and Women be friends? The first thing out of everyone’s mouth was “our kids would say yes.” Or yes regarding co-workers but only in the work environment never socially.
 
…But then the fun came, the stories, oh the stories of past women, past female friends of their husbands.  These past female friends apparently did not think being married would or should change their friendship with their men-pals for one second much less forever. They could not understand their friend was now another women’s husband. AND the only way to have continued a friendship with a married man and did I mention the ONLY way is through a friendship with his wife! Boohoo if that does not work, S O R R Y!
 
Stupid, stupid, stupid…. each story told was better then the next, of the bold, cocky and flirting women calling, acting and behaving as if their man-pal would make his wife second to them.  Stupid, stupid, stupid…. Well happy ending of course, these are husbands of MY friends of the honorable (no cheating, no lying.) Their husband’s dropped kicked the stupid girl (pals) to the curb.
 
Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today as my silent investor’s only true female friend.
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
 
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TGIF – The Smother Brothers!

27 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
TGIF...I am please to bring you the Smother Brothers Comedy Hour Season 3 Episode 2 Part 1
 
 
 
Not only are they are incredibly funny ( including Pat Paulsen for President) but they are incredibly poignant (politics, race, etc).  The T.V. audience is a TGIF moment as well!
 
Enjoy!
 
Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today in front of my computer laughing, yes just laughing today!
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
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“I Do, I Do, I Do. I Do, I Do…”

26 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
The New York Times, Sunday July 22 “I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do”… by Brooks Barnes
 
The article I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do reminds me of my posting titled “I Have No Problems” And Other Complaints” dated April 9. I wrote about an article and television interview by Laura T. Coffey regarding a woman in the UK (Samantha Brick) who was complaining that she was far too attractive and couldn’t wait to grow old and wrinkly because her beauty was nothing more then a burden. I was just about to theorize maybe I had no tolerance for Ms. Brick’s public display of narcissistic behavior mixed with a good healthy dose of stupidity because I was not in a very tolerant mood back in April but NO (that’s not it) I feel the exact same way today in July.
 
So with that said lets move on to the SundayStyles, The New York Times, Sunday, July 22 titles “I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do…” by Brooks Barnes
 
The article is basically filled with cranky individuals because they are invited to far too many weddings due to “the legalization of same-sex marriage” and their friends saying “I do” is monopolizing their weekends. And don’t forget to toss in some delicious judgment and voila an article in the New York Times about same-sex marriages with a twist of God Damn It, your happiness (wedding) is bugging the sh$t out of me!  
 
“Mr. Shields, 35, said one day this spring. “I spent my 20s going to weddings, being in weddings, shopping for weddings, helping to plan weddings. In my early 30s they finally started tapering off, and I was like, ‘Oh, thank God, we’re over the hump.”
  “He paused for dramatic effect, “Nope. Here come the Gays.”
 
I have to give Brooks Barnes a tremendous amount of credit. If it was my assignment to write this article for the New York Times I think I would have taken my note pad, smacked Mr. Shields in the head…then taken my pen and stabbed myself in the jugular, just so the pain in my head would stop from his incisive and obnoxious whining.
 
I have a need to quote my mother with her wise words and sanity in this very moment, she would say “just because you’re invited to something, doesn’t mean you have to accept.” Do you hear me Mr. Shields? Am I speaking loud enough Mr. Shields?  With everything that is going on in this world of ours (Colorado shooting) Mr. Shields complaint of a full and joyous social life is irritating.
 
Let us not forget, Gays finally won the right to get married after a long and painful battle for equality, for their union to be recognized by the state (sadly not all) to benefit from the same legal rights as straight marriages (medical, financial loans, children, taxes etc). So people who are just people can finally live their lives, just like everyone else, without unnecessary and additional problems. So dear Mr. Shields please contact Ms. Brick for your complaints of a full and joyous social life along with her complaints of being too pretty would at least give you both a simpatico ear.  Dear God help me, the brick wall I want to smack my head against is getting a little too close!
 
Mr. Barnes article does show not every one finds other people’s happiness such a burden, the article goes on to say, “Janet Barros, a 71-year-old retiree in Taunton, Mass., said she had been to at least 12 same-sex weddings since her home state legalized them in 2004 and can’t imagine anyone tiring of them. Each and every one has been lovely and moving.”
 
In my opinion true equality has finally happened to gays and straights regarding their wedded nuptials. There are lovely weddings and then there are over the top weddings (an obnoxious display of bad taste). There are weddings that everyone is happy for the couple and then there are weddings that bets are taken on the date of the obvious impending divorce. There are weddings that bring families together in acceptance, love and harmony and then there are weddings that make it a significant dividing point of no return…and so on and so forth. 
 
But I will leave you with a final quote from Mr. Barnes article regarding complaints of the “wed-a-thon”…
 
Mike Vollman…”Enjoy it while you can, he said, because weddings are a breeze compared with what comes next. Oh, Just, wait, he said. Were now on the other side of the gay-wedding bubble with our friends. You know what’s there? I call it death by gay baby shower.”
 
Asklotta and staff is MINDING YOUR BUSINESS today with absolutely no complaints of too much love, joy and commitment in this world of ours! In fact I wish there was more!
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
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Loyalty and Forgiveness?

25 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
Cleveland was in an official heat wave last week; As I sat in front of my computer I could feel sweat rolling down the back of my neck making my hair stick to my skin. My shirt looked as if I just ran through the sprinkler. It was 98 degrees in the shade; the humidity was so thick it felt like I could cut it with a knife and then my favorite dog jumped up in to my lap. I now had a 35-pound fur blanket on top of me! Difficult believing he was not as hot as I was if not hotter but go figure. I pushed him down and he starts licking my ankles, loyalty that’s what it was, loyalty! No matter how hot and uncomfortable he was Elwood would not allow his own discomfort stand in the way of trying to take good care of me, the translation in any language; love and loyalty! 
 
Which brings me to today’s post and question: Is it reasonable for humans to think of other humans (in their life) should have the same loyalty as a dog?  Should there be no limits to someone’s love and acceptance? Or (if limits) where and when should those limits be placed? How many times should limits be allowed to be crossed? Some say…love is limitless or Ali McGraw’s famous line “love means never having to say your sorry.” 
 
I say; you cannot un-ring a bell….
 
In my opinion certain people talk about forgiveness like a badminton game, batting the birdie back and forth until there is a winner, all so meaningless. Oprah talked about forgiveness, as in forgiving people who have done unspeakable acts not for them but for you. But I think that is something completely different and that is not the kind of forgiveness I am talking about today. That sounds more like radical acceptance; accepting what your life is with love. “Radical acceptance refers to your relationship with the reality of “what is” in the present moment. By arriving honestly and with openness to this moment’s experience, you create the possibility of then responding with wisdom and compassion.” 
 
Maybe for some people forgiving someone you love is actually (enabling) NOT accepting what is, but instead, standing in the quagmire of wants, submerged in a state of denial, fueling fantasies of a perfect life.
 
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Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today in a state of reality, of what truly is and I peacefully accept it all.
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what not to do!
 
Kindness regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp

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“So Long, See You Tomorrow”

24 Jul

 

Dear Readers,
 
Just one of my incredible good fortunes in life and count my lucky stars, I have two women (identical twins) in my life that I have known since the age of six. These two are true sisters of mine regardless we do not share the same parents! These women are not only brilliant (graduated from college number 1 & 2 of their class), funny, loving, and who have this incredible ability to separate the nonsense (bull sh$t) from what is truly important in life with a smile, and a laugh! They are masters at getting the job done!  AND for the average person that would be more then enough fine qualities but these women are not just average they excel at being above average! For they even have the best reading recommendations list East of the Mississippi! As you know from my May 21 posting “50 Shades of Bad Writing!” my sister is still on my reading recommendations probation list AND will remain in literary purgatory until further notice! But with that said, upon Mo and Col’s recommendation I just finished reading the book “So Long, See You Tomorrow” by William Maxwell
 
Genre: an autobiographical metafiction
 
“Its first paperback edition won a 1982 National Book Award 1982 and the William Dean Howells Medal. It has been lauded as “the most magnificently praised novel of the decade and by Michael Ondaaje as “one of the great books of our age.”
 
First: A great read – A must read!
 
Second: The guilt-ridden narrator of the story takes the reader through incidents and events that happened fifty years earlier when he was a child. He weaves the reader in and out of sequences of events before the murder takes place trying to set up the cast of characters to help him (the narrator) place the correct pieces together (some of speculation) of what happened (the unraveling of a man/a father and a friendship between two school boys Maxwell and Cletus.  The story is threaded through the perspective of his young naive perspective. Which brings further guilt to him as an adult of the misplayed loyalty and the misunderstanding of painful realities of an adulterous affair and hence the destruction of two neighboring families and that of their small town of Lincoln, IL.  
 
Now the movie Crazy, Stupid, Love (2011) a “romantic comedy-drama” is the contemporary humorous version (same under lying theme) an adulterous affair by a wife/mother and the dismantling (hurt) of her family and those in close proximity (the dominion effect) but with a far funnier and happier ending then the book! 
 
 
Asklotta and staff is MINDING YOUR BUSINESS with much glee in my eye for there are two recommendations for today. A must read, “So Long, See You Tomorrow” by William Maxell and a must rent Movie, “Crazy, Stupid, Love.” You are welcome!
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
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“The What If” Game

23 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
As I was being very lazy the other day with catalogs spewed all around me while reading a book I had just received from Amazon.com, I allowed my mind to wonder for a few minutes that of course led to a much lengthier wondering time for me.  I didn’t care; there is something most delicious about being lazy in the summer. Maybe it is a throw back from summers off from school and lying on the beach with my sister reading together on our blanket trying to knock off some of the books that our parents required us to read during our summers in Chicago. It was the time after lunch (of course) because of the rule: no going in the water an hour after you have eaten so you don’t get a cramp and drown! I think adults back then were far better at scaring the SH$T out of children then we are today.
 
But anyway…
 
As my eye lids became heavier and heavier and the warmth of the sun gave me the perfect excuse to just lower my lids for a moment in to pure relaxation and then it started… “The What If” game. I am sure you have played this game before…What if I never had the parents I did? What if I didn’t have the sister I do? What if I never went to my 25th college reunion, where I meant my husband? What if I didn’t have the exact same children I have?  What if I didn’t have the friends I have? Or even What if I didn’t have the problems I have? And so on and so on and so forth! A friend of mine calls this the “mental masturbation.” game, has no purpose, it just brings pleasure.
 
Then I thought, is there a starting point? Is there a beginning to “The What If” game?
 
Well…
 
MY Mother and Father taught me to love, be appreciative and be resilient through their actions and words. 
MY sister has given me 50+ years of unconditional love and never ending support and humor. 
 
…And from there I realized with all the clarity one can have in a sleepy poolside fog…. “The What If” game has no beginning and has no end.  
 
“People are people because of other people!” And I just happened to have been dealt the luckiest cards (a royal flush in life) a girl could ever wish for in one life time! 
 
So with that said, I am full of love and appreciation that the moon and stars aliened, the universe spoke loud and clear and the heavens bestowed down on me…the most unbelievable luck! So for me to have the children I do, the husband I do and the friends I do, even those brief encounter moments ( Jenny – My Posting on June 14 ) not excluding those souls I would have preferred not in my life, it all has been the most unbelievable amazing luck and I would not be in this exact moment in time if just one person/event did not happen exactly as it did, at the exact moment that it did!
  
Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today in awe of all the unexplainable invisible beauty that fills our world! And if you don’t believe me, just close your eyes and start playing the “what if” game. It will turn a believer out of even the worse skeptics.
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp  
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TGIF, WEST SIDE STORY, & SANGRIA!

20 Jul

Dear Readers,

 

TGIF - West Side Story 

 

Singing, Dancing and Drama! Thank Goodness it’s Friday! 

 

America 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPlcE3GcoFc

 

 

“Gee Officer Krupke”  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&v=c-R0FTfkPAQ&NR=1

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Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today with a fruit filled Sangria, the remote control and West Side Story Movie on Play!

 

Picture from the blog of “Tasty Little Morsels” May 20, 2010 “Sangria” (go to blog for recipe)

 

Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!

 

Kindest regards,

 

Asklotta

 

President and CEO

 

CBCorp

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Divorcing, A Response from yesterday’s posting!

19 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
I received a few responses from yesterday’s posting titled ”Divorcing”. Most of them to my email address for it touched a personal note and they wanted to reach out to me in a more private setting and could not believe the perfect timing of my post.
 
Below is a comment I received and with the permission of the author is today’s posting. So with that said please read on for it eloquently sums up what respect can and will do (it turns coal in to diamonds.) Proof, living proof of what happens when grown-ups act like grown-ups instead of jealous revengeful spoiled children and make the conscious decision (please believe me, it is a decision) to divorce with dignity not because it is easy but because it is a win, win in the long run!
 
“AMEN, Lotta!
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You can say that again, the need to respect the fact that the rules that existed during a marriage become null and void due to a new nuance. I’ve never heard it put so well! And the outcome when this fact is actually respected … HARMONY! 
 
And there’s only one route to get there. It’s called the high road. My mother took the high road when my Dad left her for another woman. She never once said a negative thing about my dad after their divorce. She never once said the words “child support” or “money” or “your dad did blankety-blank-blank to me” or “if your dad hadn’t left me…” or “your dad won’t pay for that so you can’t do it.” 
 
She never said one negative thing about my stepmom (and from my experience and observation it’s the insecurity of the bio-mom that starts the name-calling and/or bad relationship between a bio-mom and a stepmom — so here’s to you, Mom!). 
 
My mother gave me the freedom to love my stepmom. And guess what — I love my mother even more for it. So, my parents gave me the gift of harmony within their divorce, and the gift of many holidays with all three of them. Open minds create open hearts.
I am eternally grateful for my parents’ maturity and restraint through some tough years. If there was anger, I wasn’t aware. If there was hurt, I wasn’t aware. If there was sadness, I wasn’t aware. They knew I had things to do, friends to meet, football games to attend, boyfriends to date, parties to throw, homework to do, and life to live. They were not going to allow their divorce to be a weight on my shoulders. So, thanks, Mom and Dad, for that loving gift of freedom.
 
I still have my parents. They’re 88, soon to be 89. I lost my stepmom recently and would give anything to have her back. But God works in mysterious ways. Instead of my mom and dad living their lives out alone, they like to spend their time together with me. We yuck it up, laugh about the past, try to figure out my brothers, go on rides, and we all miss my stepmom. How’s that for life going full circle? It’s the payoff for two people taking the high road. We all win!
 
Thanks, Asklotta! You made my day! I hadn’t thought about all this in a while.”
 
 
Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today filled with gratitude my former husband and I took the “high road” created new rules and boundaries that were honored and respected which created a clear new path for moving forward, past the hurt with dignity, to reach the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow (“Harmony”.) I only remember the good times with my previous husband and if I live to 100, I will always be grateful for the children he gave me. 
 
And with that said…
 
I am truly madly in love with my husband; love all of my seven children (regardless of their DNA.) I will always remain hopeful for the dignifying divorce, “the gift of harmony” will become a chic new trend in the future because it works!
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
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Divorcing

18 Jul
Dear Readers,
 
Divorcing, just the word brings sadness and sorrow to those who have had the unfortunate personal experience with this very painful and expensive process. Divorcing (verb) is the action word for the process and procedure of ending a marriage and life as a family built around the marriage. The thesaurus defines the word divorcing as “dissociating, disconnecting, separating, distancing, and detaching,” 
 
And if anyone thinks for one second everything and everyone is going to be great, happier and better then it was before, they are either insane or have a lover!  The definition of the word does not lend itself to happiness, at least not in the beginning, in fact requires a grieving period for all. To those who think they can by pass right over the grieving period are delusional about divorce’s impact on their family, it reminds me of a saying…”Besides that Mrs. Lincoln, how did you like the play?” 
 
When you are the one left, it is all about rebuilding, taking stock of your relationships and making the necessary changes to make yourself whole again. Which always involves new rules and boundaries for engaging with others, which need to be respected (by all) if there is to be any hope of a peaceful and respectful friendship, co-parenting (new working) relationship in the future.  The rules that existed during a marriage become null and void due to a huge new nuance…divorce (dissociating, disconnecting, separating, distancing, and detaching.) Trust needs to be rebuilt and it takes time and time and time and by the way did I mention TIME!
 
There are many good reasons for divorcing your spouse, e.g., addictions, abuse, cheating etc.! And then there are some not so good reasons…but whether the death of a marriage is for a good or bad reason it is ALWAYS better when it does NOT involve a third person (a lover.)  Many cheating spouses will say, cheating didn’t break up the marriage it was a symptom of a bigger problem. Trust me on this one; they are in a state of moral and ethical denial of mind and body.  Woody Allen – “We define ourselves by the choices we make” AND ” With the lack of morality comes rationality” A quote from my posting on June 17  “Defining ourselves!” 
 
Which brings me to the point of today’s posting…
 
Much has been said and written about Katie Holmes and her planned exit from her marriage to Tom Cruise “A Calculated Breakup” by Jacob Bernstein, The New York Times, Sunday, July 15.  But what is a stand out for me, No Lover, No Extramarital Affair! Maybe that is why both sides could come to a mutual and respectful agreement in a short period of time. It also appears which I give her tremendous amount of credit for… her honorable priorities. Katie’s main objective (and got) was sole custody of their daughter Suri. There was a pre-nuptial in place but that does not mean she could not have found a lawyer to charge forward with swords drawn, for an all out frontal attack. 
 
We all know Katie Holmes could have dragged this through the media and courts (no spouse is perfect) and the public would have lapped it up like water on a hot day by a thirsty dog but instead she chose to drag Suri to school, gymnastics and to the zoo…I would say a far better dragging choice for everyone involved! Hmmm a mother actually choosing her child over money and the revengeful disemboweling of her former husband, what a novel idea in today’s greed and self-absorbed, maybe it will turn in to a chic new style of divorce for other mothers choosing to exit.
 
In Mr. Bernstein’s article he quotes (the director) Callie Khouri of “Mad Money” the 2008 film about “three women who commit a robbery.” She says about Katie, “She was not stupid, in my experience, Ms. Khouri said, Quite the opposite. When I was working with her, she seemed very happy. If things changed, the fact that she was able to do this without making it a big ugly public thing is not unlike what I would expect. She’s a dignified girl and she’s been in show business since she was a little kid. She’s not a neophyte.”
One can only remain hopeful that the Katie Holmes style of dignifying divorce starts a hip new trend!
 
Asklotta and staff will MIND YOUR BUSINESS today with wise words of wisdom, you NEVER meet your soul mate while you are married to someone else! It is just called hurting your spouse and children unnecessarily! AND with that said, pack up yesterday’s memories, remember only the good times and move on!
 
Again, it has been my pleasure to tell you what to do and what NOT to do!
 
Kindest regards,
 
Asklotta
 
President and CEO
 
CBCorp
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